Happy Diwali

It's a festival time ...

I wish to all my friends a Happy Prosperous and colorful Deepawali ..
Have a great time!!

A Few lines coming out from my heart…

“Jindgi ke har pal ko Diwali bana kar Jiyo,

Sada doosre ki khusiyo ko, apni khushiya bana kar jiyo,

khushiyo se hi jeevan hain,pyar hain,ise maan bana kar jiyo,

Bhagwan ko karo arpan,uske aadar ko samman bana kar jiyo,

Diwali to sirf ek bahana hain, jis se duniya ko yeh yaad dilaana hain,

Naa bhule hum sab yeh khushiya, yeh pyar, yeh aasha deep jala kar jiyo,

Yahi duan hain shalabh ki is shubh parv par, har pal diwali banate raho”

Once again Happy Diwali…J

And Say “Little” NO to Crackers J

Happy and Safe Diwali…J

How good is Indian Education System?

Is Indian Education-System good?I doubt.Let me give my opinions about it.
Many a children goes to school and at the end if he/she passes the only criterion of the exam,he entered to the next class.This process continues,in general,for every person till one find oneself satisfied.We all followed the same and next generations will do the same.So a basic question comes into the mind of the reader,"What is wrong in Education System?".

Is there any need to go through this process?Many of you at this point might disagree with me.On an average it took 17-18 years for a person to decide his future.I have friends who studied science till 12th class and then switched to commerce.Obviously i am not considering those who have family business and their interest lies inline with it.What all need is analytical mind,which our education provides through burden of books.If a person finds himself interested then there is no way to stop his quench for knowledge.There should not be a compulsion for a person to read the subject,only basics are enough for him.For example,I studied Social Science,Civics,History till my 10th class.I do not find any intelligence to have these subjects till
10th class.Though if these subjects are not an obligation to go the next class and mugging up these subjects,i definitely found them interested.

I feel happy at least,in one good decision of Education Board to make Board exams voluntarily.I appreciate.These kind of efforts from Board are definitely reduce the unnecessary stress from a
student.A coin is never biased,hence it also has its disadvantages.But i find these disadvantages very less as compared to advantages.Moreover if a student does not want to perform,I find it risible to make him perform by putting him in obligation and in stress.

I can calibrate a few subjects on the scale of building analytical skills.Subjects like Mathematics(Vedic/Modern),Language(forRational thinking),Science must be taught.A basic test just to test how well a student build up its skills is enough.At the age of 15-16,student must opt for his/her instead it delaying it for another 4-5 years.

There are many things which need to incorporated in our education system.How many of us using Chemistry,Physics in our profession? How better it would be if one decides its interest first and then work on it rather in opposite sense?

This is a debatle issue.So,I opened it in Open Space for you readers to discuss and debate.

IIM STUDENT vs A NORMAL PERSON

IIM STUDENT : Individuals who make their abodes in vitreous edifices would be advised to refrain from
catapulting perilous projectiles.

A NORMAL PERSON : People who live in glass houses should not throw stones.

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IIM STUDENT : Scintillate, scintillate, asteroid minim.

NORMAL PERSON : Twinkle, twinkle, little star

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IIM STUDENT: All articles that coruscate with resplendence are not truly auriferous.

NORMAL PERSON : All that glitters is not gold.

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IIM STUDENT : Sorting on the part of mendicants must be interdicted.

NORMAL PERSON : Beggars are not choosers

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IIM STUDENT : Male cadavers are incapable of rendering any testimony.

NORMAL PERSON : Dead men tell no tales

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IIM STUDENT : Neophyte's serendipity.

NORMAL PERSON : Beginner's luck

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IIM STUDENT : A revolving lithic conglomerate accumulates no congeries of small, green, biophytic plant.

NORMAL PERSON : A rolling stone gathers no moss

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IIM STUDENT: Members of an avian species of identical plumage tend to congregate.

NORMAL PERSON : Birds of a feather flock together

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IIM STUDENT : Pulchritude possesses solely cutaneous profundity.

NORMAL PERSON : Beauty is only skin deep

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IIM STUDENT : Freedom from incrustations of grime is contiguous to rectitude.

NORMAL PERSON : Cleanliness is godliness

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IIM STUDENT : It is fruitless to become lachrymose of precipitately departed lactile fluid.

NORMAL PERSON : There's no use crying over spilt milk

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IIM STUDENT : It is fruitless to attempt to indoctrinate a superannuated canine with innovative maneuvers.

NORMAL PERSON : You can't try to teach an old dog new tricks

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IIM STUDENT : Surveillance should precede saltation.

NORMAL PERSON : Look before you leap

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IIM STUDENT : The person presenting the ultimate cachinnation possesses thereby the optimal cachinnation.

NORMAL PERSON : He who laughs last, laughs best

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IIM STUDENT : Exclusive dedication to necessitous chores without interludes of hedonistic diversion renders Jack a hebetudinous fellow.

NORMAL PERSON : All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.

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IIM STUDENT : Where there are visible vapours having their provenance in ignited carbonaceous materials, there is conflagration.

Rehashing GodFather

It was Tuesday.No raining,a pleasant soothing climate with zephyr made me elated to start early though i have finished my sinecure.Sine qua non tickets were already booked.I sat comfortably to watch the movie "Sarkar".

Sarkar was highlighted with enough stars in 'Most Read Newspaper' but in the end I found missing their brightness.When a maverick filmmaker like Ram Gopal Varma creations usually cater the taste of eye opening scenes of Urmila and Antra.Those who know Varma’s style know that he is a man who wouldn’t venture out to create a replica. And it is true that his Sarkar is his own interpretation of the Mario Puzo novel, with a few cinematic liberties. No one wants to read any urgent message while watching his movie.Just one blink can miss the real taste of the movie.

'Sarkar' might have disappointed its viewers in this regard.The captivating formula of movie is its starcast Subhash Nagare 'Sarkar' (Amitabh Bachchan) and Shankar Nagare(Abhishek Bachchan) in same relationship.'Sarkar' character is like an open authority who works openly for the welfare of society.Though his paraphernalia might not be right way to do it and against the law.

Entrapment of 'Sarkar' by his foes followed by relieving of him by his son.Movie ended up by killing sequentially the causes of entrapment.Onus of 'Sarkar' transferred to Shankar.The end.

What was missing? Hadn't be the de jure against smoking,the movie would be ended in the mist of smoke..Thank God,our Dons have given up smoking..:-) at least in movies..I could listen the 'kind' of 'Khallas' song in the background.I was patient.I was much confident for the song.After all,it is Ramu's work.I took lot of time to drive my "fidget" on "Road" but it lead me to disappointment.No 'Naach' like 'Khallas' in 'Sarkar'.

Overall 'Sarkar' is worth watchable for only once :-) ..for its best direction..but not for its dreary story.Sarkar is said to be Ram Gopal Verma’s tribute to The Godfather.

Enhancing Relationships-"Golden Words"

This post is a forward which i got as a routine work in office...
I could not resist myself posting it in my blog...
These are golden words and one should apply in life ...

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is
broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to
suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity
may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call.
She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She
repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to
cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB.
Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose
number it is."

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if
the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
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NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a
successful marriage. Could you please share with me our secret?" The
father-in-law
answered in a smile, "Never criticise your wife for her shortcomings or
when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her
shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than
you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are
afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he
would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is
the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one
finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
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CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and
requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable
one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good
looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing
and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my
leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when
I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to
rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you
need television."

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a
blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the
faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of
the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and
dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the
excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that
marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
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NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,
or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer
all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage.
Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries
the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than
a person's character."

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the
spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our
expectations..
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RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will
either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off
because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,
we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without
considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction
site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily!
Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way
home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.
Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She
answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he
will be the millionaire and not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad
relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
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PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be
another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On
the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride
on the donkey?"Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on
the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and
commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride
on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife
quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How
can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no
gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey.
Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you
hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing
that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey
and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the
donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell
into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will
everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will
be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is
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BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of
his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old
son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck.
The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands
into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son
to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he
finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the
boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently
said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are
my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed
suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u
wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with
someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings
often can't. Too often we fail to recognise the difference between
the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is
greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the
actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

Empowering Indian Women

Needless to argue that our government has come up with big step towards women'protection.Recent approval of the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Bill 2005 speaks it out.Thanks to NGO's activists that made their cronically attempts to get the approval.The Bill has been the major issue seeking approval since 2001.13th Lok Sabha succeeded to approve the Bill."Ab Bhartiya Nari Ghar main Surakshit hain...".

In India,Women issues are always seen as the way to get the attention of the crowd,it may be a movie or it may be empowering the women rights.Sensitive issue to be taken always with care.

Four years of continuous debate,activists efforts at last succeeded to empower the women rights.Though the putative Bill has been amended since 2004 now definition of domestic violence has been extended to include all kinds of abuse and also its threat — physical, sexual, verbal, emotional and economic. What is more, it covers single women in a live-in relationship and women living in joint families —sisters, mothers, widows — often at the receiving end of physical and emotional abuse. The most empowering clause, however, relates to women's
right to residence in shared households. The Bill seeks to protect the rights of women to secure a house or live in her matrimonial home or shared accommodation, whether or not she holds any title or rights. This right will be secured by a order passed by a magistrate. It also provides for
appointment of protection officers and registration of NGOs as service providers for legal and medical assistance to the abused.

Hardly we can commit practically that there would be time when man and woman are equal in India.Women rights in male dominated society are some of the initiatives to make them confident to fight against the violence and threat.The extent of domestic violence prevalent in our society is far greater than we would like to admit. Source -TOI :Statistics reveal that 45 per cent of Indian women are slapped, kicked or beaten by their husbands and 75 per cent of battered women contemplate suicide.

Indian woman is now no more pusillanimous against threats.She is more safenow under the Bill.Hoping for next women Bill in near future.It is well said that the nation is judged by the women power.So lets empower women to empowerIndia.

Glossary -where nothing relates in relation

Teacher-a person who forgets his school-college days...
Bike-reason for un necessary braking..
Window-device used to peep next door girl
Book-passing tool utilised only in exams..
Work Station-where all work stops..
Certificate-forgery to get the job
E-mail-simply for time pass
Manager-one who manages the already managed things...
Remote Control-it helps to excercise your thumb in switching channels
College-place which needs a tough competition to get in to waste time in proper ways..
Movie-a chain of scenes which need to be covered up...
Internet-here you can find better option of job
Meetings-time waste, where real management comes simply to conclude with next meeting dates
Degree-alias of the name
Open Space-where people break their mind

Unrevealed Fear of Sannata

Kokila Ben would never thought of...Jay,Goldie and Gauri also would never thought of that their partners work would take up peace of mind of a boy called "Sannata".

Sannata was like a hero of his group.He loved to make friends and one could always find him talking to new persons.He was inherited the quality of not being silent in contrast to his name.One night he was thinking all about his friends.He was very much nervous, sad and feeling poignant that though he had number of friends but still he was alone.

Next morning, he turned to be little peevish and he was almost on the verge of being ostracized by his group.All the world around him became obsolete and then he started to search for a friend.A friend to whom he could be always with him.A friend who could be cynosure,a friend who could be panecea and always ready to help.His activities in searching for a friend had become a obsession whether it was day or night, Sannata was always found to unveil his zeal for friend.

Sannata belonged to a small town "RilZilla" where only sun light could reach..it was like days to think to go just nearby-city.RilZilla people were well updated to the happenings in the world.Surprisingly there was a daily newspaper which made this small town updated to the world..Sannata had left the reading of the newspaper, once he had started for searching..

It was sunny day,Sannata was going for school. Sannata was about to reach his school but before he got down from his recently assembled cycle,a piece of newspaper became a cynosure of his eyes..Sannata had found at least a glimpse of his friend..He got the assurance to meet his friend after 5 months..Sannta was waiting for these 5 months to turn over and the day came when he was about to meet.Sannata was very much happy being with new friend.Sannata had lot of
faith in his new friend..so he christened him by name "Vishwaas".

Sannata and Vishwaas started living together for compelete 24 hours a day...Their friendship were burgeoning in leaps and bounds as both were aggressive listeners..If one used to speak other used to listen only..People could see the changes ingrained in Sannata being with Viswaas..but after 6 months Vishwaas came to his reality..and the reality soon became
the sleepless nights for Sannata.Vishwaas was loosing his temper and if Sannata kept on talking or listening to him..he was turned to be very hot, not even tolerable for a second.Sannata sooner realised that Viswaas was taking lot of his moneyand power to make himself cool and happy to be with him.Sannata started feeling pain in his ears,feeing irritated with Vishwaas and realised that he was on the way to hell.Moreover, he started avoiding him.but the story of his friendship turned up to a morbid fear of him.Sannata's life had become hell now as after every 15 min or a gap of 100th fraction of Thou minutes,he is receiving his friend with a long horrorway of sound.Sannata now to his extreme wanted to kill Viswaas when he came up with four digits with text message "Duplicate"...

Author Note-Dedicated to only those who had captured the world in their fist by Reliance Mobile .."Kar lo Duniya Moothi main"...

Who am I ?

Most of the time, you have been questioned with "What is your name?" "Who are you?"
These are the basic requirement for todays world to have name for any living beings though
not necessarily :-) But it always take me to deep ponderous thought and till now i havent come out from this kind of black hole question "Who am I?

Am i the robot who has sent to this planet with key running as my life? What is my objective?What am i doing?..i have become slave of these questions.Few years back i came to this earth with no knowledge. After some years i will be gone with lot of knowledge but with all that i cant answer that," Am i the body,mind or the body and mind is mine?".Every day i get up in morning,work, eat and then sleep in the night, is that the purpose of this robot.

Some time i think why the concept of time exists,who created time.I dont define time nor i believe in time.For me Time is constant.All of us are static and living statically,it sounds weird...it may change your way of thinking.For me its day,for others its evening,night,noon but truly all of us are at the same moment.

Also things about life-death cycle gravitates me to unknown era of questions.Do we live to wait death or there comes death for life?Its a cycle, no doubt but where am i in this cycle?How much will we discover the truth after death depends on the efforts we seed in life?
We are struggling so hard in life even when we know that life is temporary.Is struggle really needed to live life happily?I dont know who quoted this famous quote "Life is struggle".
Why to strive for money, fame when all these are temporary?

There is no end of questions but all we can do is try to discover self,life and death.
I am eagerly waiting for the moment when i come across "Who am I?" and get to know the objective of this existence.

Pseudo Professionalism

This article might be the sarcastic attempt for those who understands professionalism wrongly and behave like the ideal professional.This article might be tuned in different frequencies as it progresses..

The word Professionalism defined in one of the best dictionary as,
pro·fes·sion·al·ism (n)-. Professional status, methods, character, or standards.
The objective of this article is to give channel to my voice to reach to those pseudo professionals who think it of as only status..
If person is high in status in any organisation,this does not mean that he or she possess high professionlism.Only there are certain fields in this mathematical world where simple math
fails.No proportion rule applies in this calculation.
There are methods,character,standards when mixed with right proportiongive a shape to professionalism.Today i find that the word Professionalism is being used very casuallyand thereby loosing its content.Since birth i was taught to express ideas or any thing ..my attempt to pen the result of right teaching at right time..
Do we act like professionals? This simple question can be interpretedonly in one way but can be answered in many ways according to individuals.
Can we find these methods,standards in any best selling book whose author
elucidate these fundamentals?
"You are a professional,you should come to office on time...but you can leaveonly when the work is complete though it makes you to feel yawn at 8 pm in office."[scene:Manager to his sub ordinate,scene-ideal S/w Company]

I was shocked when my friend told about this scenerio.Completely ridiculous,shocking..harsh emotions are feeling hard to stay inside my heart.
Its humorous to state nowadays Time has become the function of professionalism..If it is the case then I request everybody to learn hyper professionalism from labourers.
Do not associate time to work instead associate it with efficiency or in better word productivity.
Proper plan your work for certain period and schedule it accordingly..This is the only formula for a big company to perform well in the market..
No planning,but coming to the work on time,forcibly leaving late only formulate to the moribund organisations.
Some of the management states that we feel like family in our organisation.On the other side the same management states that we also maintain professionalism.Sorry to say but this kind of oxymoron is out of my scope.
One needs to clearly understand the professional life and personal life in
professionalism..
Think about the scenerio when a wife is a manager and her husband is her team
mate..How would then professionalism act?
Should they show their personal relationship in the organisation,or should
they act like a manager and a team member..Which benefits the company or whichbenefits the growth of professionalism in the company.
These questions for a while looks simple but can lead to endless discussion.
This article is just an attempt to open this issue in Open Space which i sarcastically named is as "Pseudo Professionalism"..

Modes of Journey

Self is a starting point of two journeys.Outer Journey and the other unknown journey called as Inner Journey.Outer journey does not reach towards the Self Realisation.Outer Journey leads to this material world,it involves the contamination of self with materialistic things.Ego,Jealous,Misery,Greed are some side effects of outer journey.Inner journey is always pristine and reach to the Self Realisation.Inner Journey reach to the union with the Divine,a
blissful state.Self Realisation is always taken in different terminologies,it is actually understanding that we are not the body but a soul.There are two modes to become self realised.In a very simple language,I term them as Ascending and Descending modes.In Ascending mode,we work for soul to realise that it is a part of supreme soul.Whereas in
Descending mode,we already know that soul is part of supreme.In this process if one go one step towards God then God comes many steps towards oneself.

Bhakti is a process to step in Descending mode.In current age,the more number of minds,the more number of Gods.To follow descending process,one must understand that there is only one supreme power,"Supreme God".We are simply the souls sent by Him based on our past karmas.It is our duty to completely surrender to Him.Surrender here means that whatever we perform it should be offering to Him.

Clear understanding of this process will definitely leads to love in society.Inner journey automatically unbinds the attachment which does not help in realisation.Purity is the side effect of Bhakti,and when one is in Bhakti there comes Love.We then feel that we all are one and should work forMoksha.Moksha means when soul unites with God and become free from the cycle of miseries like birth and death.It is the blissed state where principles of Modern Science fails.
Trulely surrender to one Supreme Power,and hence put your one step in Inner Journey.All the dirt getting out of your soul then can easily be felt.After lot of years we get the soul in Human form,take the advantage of this birth.Offering love to Him.

If you are intelligent you are big zero "0", if you are rich you are more big "00",if you have everything then you are n numbers of big zeros "0000000..." but if you have God then simply add "1" to the start of the string of n big zeros...

"I think therefore I do not think..."

Fashion has become pervasive.Something different is called as fashion like in dress..but nowadays people are drilling out the "lines" as a part of fashion..one liner like this "I think therefore I do not think".."Nobody is perfect and I am Nobody"..A ponderous breathe on these liners is enough for a person to give him shock..whats nonsense is this???This one liners are not at all different from viruses..you can easily find out this viruses as a signature attachment of the email..Some days back i got this virus ..its like "You can not find out your potential till you do not try" It really made me to mull over and little hyserical emotions.Write any statement,frame into double quotes and there comes a one liner...very simple.

If this fashion continues to spread like this i better start my own venture business to write and spread this virus on demand .I have lot of garbage in my brain and i find all these one liners as garbage so i do not have parochial about this business.Success is knocking my door..I can easily listen ...can you????I already have my homepage.I will analyse the market in case of prior
competition to put the price for this ideal widget.I can proudly announce that if this fashion continues and if the restriction that one liners are not freely spread that i will be next to Gates.

I would like to quote one more line on this scenerio "I can not spell s*ccess without u"..I do not oppose this fashion..I am only against of the wrong means of fashion..Some of these are really good "Computer never do mistake,It executes our mistake in a very perfect manner"..This is good and I am sure all the readers who has Software as a profession are with me... :-)Write any garbage,people can easily find meaning in that liner...Take this .."Every Journey ends with Success and Failure is the driving key to Journey"..I feel uncomfortable whenever i come across these stupid liners.I scare to see the signature of email.Read this good one "There are 10 types of people in the world: Those who can understand binary and those who don't "Almost all these liners are "Bakwaas".I request please collect these liners and save it in a folder then harshly press "Shift +Delete".

Actually I was impressed with "Writing happens when you dont feel writing.." :-)

PS#Wishing all of you a very happy new year...